精心準(zhǔn)備演講稿可以增加你的自信，使你在演講時更加鎮(zhèn)定自若，撰寫演講稿時，演講者通常會考慮自己的口才和表達(dá)能力，以下是范文社小編精心為您推薦的愛情的利與弊演講稿8篇，供大家參考。
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇1
you may observe, that amongst all the great and worthy persons (whereof the memory remaineth, either ancient or recent) there is not one, that hath been transported to the mad degree of love: which shows that great spirits, and great business, do keep out this weak passion. you must except, nevertheless, marcus antonius, the half partner of the empire of rome, and appius claudius, the decemvir and lawgiver; whereof the former was indeed a voluptuous man, and inordinate; but the latter was an austere and wise man: and therefore it seems (though rarely) that love can find entrance, not only into an open heart, but also into a heart well fortified, if watch be not well kept.
it is a poor saying of epicurus, satis magnum alter alteri theatrum sumus; as if man, made for the contemplation of heaven, and all noble objects, should do nothing but kneel before a little idol, and make himself a subject, though not of the mouth (as beasts are), yet of the eye; which was given him for higher purposes.
it is a strange thing, to note the excess of this passion, and how it braves the nature, and value of things, by this; that the speaking in a perpetual hyperbole, is comely in nothing but in love. neither is it merely in the phrase; for whereas it hath been well said, that the arch-flatterer, with whom all the petty flatterers have intelligence, is a man’s self; certainly the lover is more. for there was never proud man thought so absurdly well of himself, as the lover doth of the person loved; and therefore it was well said, that it is impossible to love, and to be wise. neither doth this weakness appear to others only, and not to the party loved; but to the loved most of all, except the love be reciproque. for it is a true rule, that love is ever rewarded, either with the reciproque, or with an inward and secret contempt.
by how much the more, men ought to beware of this passion, which loseth not only other things, but itself! as for the other losses, the poet’s relation doth well figure them: that he that preferred helena, quitted the gifts of juno and pallas. for whosoever esteemeth too much of amorous affection, quitteth both riches and wisdom.
this passion hath his floods, in very times of weakness; which are great prosperity, and great adversity; though this latter hath been less observed: both which times kindle love, and make it more fervent, and therefore show it to be the child of folly. they do best, who if they cannot but admit love, yet make it keep quarters; and sever it wholly from their serious affairs, and actions, of life; for if it check once with business, it troubleth men’s fortunes, and maketh men, that they can no ways be true to their own ends.
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇2
when her love beckons you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. and when his wings enfold you, yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. and when he speaks to you, believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
for even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
but if , in your fear, you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. love possesses not, nor would it be possessed, for love is sufficient unto love.
love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. but if you love and have desires, let these be your desires:
to melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
to know the pain of too much tenderness.
to be wounded by your own understanding of love.
and to bleed willingly and joyfully.
to wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
to rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;
to return home at eventide with gratitude;
and then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart.
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇3
do you know what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world? money? you may lose everything you have if you don't use money careful enough.youth?in one's long life youth is like a flash in the pan and no one in the world has the secret to keep his youth forever. beautiful look? many people pray that they can get hold of beauty, but it disappears far more quickly than they can imagine. and when they are in real trouble beauty itself feels helpless. a good job? as you grow older and your brain and hands can't work as fast as before. it will become other people's wealth.
then what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world?
when you are far away from your family and feel especially lonely, who will you think of? when you stand on the crossroad in your life and don't know which way to choose, who will you think of? when you encounter greater difficulties than ever and need other's encouragement, who will you think of? when you decide to make the greatest decision in your favorite course, which shed cheerful tears when see you get achievements? whose wholehearted blessing will be always with you no matter how far you will go?
yes, its mother who you will always think of and it's mother's love that will be always be with you.
i once heard a moving story about a mother. two children were drawn into the flood and the situation was very dangerous. their mother jumped into the water without hesitation. but the mother couldn't swim at all. jumping into the water means she might lose her life. but at that time she had no time to think about herself. she just wanted to try all means to save her children. maybe her courage touched the god. the miracle happened. she finally succeeded in saving her both children. and she, of course, felt extremely exhausted.
my friends, mother’s love is the greatest love. mother’s love is the safest love. no matter you are happy or depressed, rich or poor, mother’s love will always stay with you.
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇4
if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.
love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i became a man, i put childish ways behind me. now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.
it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want
to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.
the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
there was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer that can?ˉt be cured. he was 18 years old and he could die anytime. all his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.
he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.
she looked up and asked, "can i help you?"
she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.
he said, "uh... yeah... umm... i would like to buy a cd."
he picked one out and gave her money for it.
"would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.
he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.
he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. his mother found out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...
one day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, "hello?"
it was the girl!!! the mother started to cry and said, "you don?ˉt know? he passed away yesterday..."
the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy?ˉs mother. later in the day, the mother went into the boy?ˉs room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.
she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.
the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd...
again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.
love is... when you?ˉve had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, "i love you."
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇5
我要和大家分享一個愛情故事，是關(guān)于我一個好哥們叫做小勤，小勤這個人呢是一個農(nóng)村的孩子，通過自己的努力考學(xué)考到了我們的山東大學(xué)，我記得他在進(jìn)入我們山東大學(xué)第一次和我們見面的時候就說“我一定要當(dāng)山東大學(xué)的學(xué)生會主席?！蔽覀儺?dāng)時都笑著說“你這樣的人肯定是不行的，這樣的人實在是太傻太天真了?！?/p>
但是后來我們發(fā)現(xiàn)小勤的傻和天真不止是在于這樣一個事件，他后來愛上了一個姑娘，這個姑娘使我們山東大學(xué)化學(xué)院的?；?，瘦瘦高高的甚至比小勤這個男生還要高兩公分，我們都說“小勤你肯定不行的，人家是女神，你再看看你?！毙∏谄恍胚@個邪，他開始給小王姑娘寫情書，而且呢第一次為了要表達(dá)自己的熱情，他一次性的手寫八千字，但是小王她畢竟是個女神啊，看到這樣一個從農(nóng)村而來長得又不高而且文筆又很差的男生，打擊他的最好的方式是什么，就是將他的情書直接打回，并且把情書里面所有的錯別字和語法錯誤全部都用大紅筆一一的標(biāo)出來，我想問一下在座的男性朋友想象一下自己辛辛苦苦寫的八千字的情書被這樣打回來了，上面全部都是紅色的勾勾叉叉，我們是不是會想這個女生實在是太可惡了，我們一定不要再去追她。
我的哥們小勤是這樣的人嗎，很可惜小勤是這樣的人，他突然覺得這個世界上所有的人都瞧不起他，所有的同學(xué)都瞧不起他，他開始心灰意冷、自甘墮落，整天躺在寢室里面酗酒，喝的'爛醉，連他最喜歡的數(shù)學(xué)居然可以考到班里倒數(shù)第一，幾年之后他心愛的小王姑娘已經(jīng)變成我們當(dāng)時的校學(xué)生會主席的女朋友，而他卻因為屢屢掛科被學(xué)校勸退了。
當(dāng)我們畢業(yè)前一天在小樹林舉辦晚會的時候，我們喝的酩酊大醉、抱頭痛哭，他一個人抽出一個酒瓶慢慢地走到我們山東大學(xué)的天工湖，縱身一躍跳湖自殺了，這個案件當(dāng)時轟動了我們整個山東大學(xué)，而這個人就是我的好哥們小勤。
我們每一個人都會在過去的這些時間里面給自己設(shè)定一個目標(biāo)，我們每天都對自己說我們要加油，我們要努力，即便我們一無所有，即便我們被人瞧不起，我們也一定可以實現(xiàn)我們的目標(biāo)的。
但是呢，當(dāng)我們遭遇挫折的時候我們會不由自主的擺出一副喪家犬的模樣，自甘墮落，放棄自己的目標(biāo)，在那種情況下這個世界上是沒有人會瞧得起你的，人必須要選擇一個目標(biāo)并且堅持下去，這個道理難道他真的就不懂嗎?
幸運的是十八歲的小勤他真的懂這個道理。事實上，當(dāng)他收到情書的時候他非常的開心，因為他覺得如果一個女生不在乎他的話她斷然不會花時間去給他修改八千字的情書的，于是他又恢復(fù)了信心，他說我要繼續(xù)寫情書，并且我要在每次寄出情書之前我要進(jìn)行大幅度的修改、校對，后來發(fā)現(xiàn)打回的情書修改的地方越來越少了，他開始熱衷于參加學(xué)校的活動并且每天都會用冷水沖澡來磨練自己的意志，兩年之后他真的成為了我們山東大學(xué)的學(xué)生會主席，并且抱得美人歸，而這個姑娘就是小王。
幾年后他們就結(jié)婚了，并且生了一個八斤三兩的大胖兒子，小勤說不希望自己的兒子長大之后像他那樣追女孩子特別困難，于是給他起了一個特別有意義的名字叫做蔣佳琦。
是的，這就是我父母之間的愛情故事，我非常慶幸我的爸爸在他十八歲的時候，沒有因為小小的挫折放棄他的夢想、放棄他的女神，也非常的慶幸在過去的這二十七年里面他始終在給我傳遞這樣一個道理，這個道理就是只要我們目標(biāo)明確，我們就要積極、陽光的去追尋，不要在意任何的歧視和反對聲，后來我問我媽說“媽你到底，到底怎么想的非要找個這樣的，你找城里的‘高富帥’多好啊?！?/p>
我媽說“我要不找他，哪來你這窮小子。”
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇6
上午好，我今日要講的話題是“友情與愛情”，這個話題對于我來說有點大，由于閱歷有限，我總結(jié)了友情與愛情的一點聯(lián)系和四點區(qū)別：
友情是愛情的基礎(chǔ)與前提；愛情是友情的發(fā)展和質(zhì)變
第一點、友情的支柱是理解，愛情的支柱是感情。
友情最重要的.是彼此的相互理解，無論是對方的長處優(yōu)點，還是短處缺點都要認(rèn)清，愛情則是用感情來美化對方的不足。
第二點，友情的地位是平等的，愛情的地位是一體。
朋友之間立場相同，地位也平等，不必太過客氣，可以直言相勸，即使有矛盾也沒什么。愛情則具有一體感，兩個人的心是一體的，所以不能互相碰擊，而而只能互相融合。
第三點、友情的體系是廣泛的，愛情的體系則是唯一的。
兩個人有堅固的友情，只要志趣相同，
第三者、
第四者可以隨時加入。愛情則不然，兩人在戀愛，
第三者插足是絕對不行的。
第四點、友情的氛圍是信賴，愛情的氛圍是不安。
一份真誠的友情，具有絕對的依賴感，猶如不會動搖的盤石。相反的，一對相愛的男女，雖不是沒有依賴對方，但老是被種種不安所包圍，比如我深深地愛著她，她是否也深深地愛著我？他的態(tài)度稍微變了，是不是還和以前一樣地愛著我？
有人說過：“在男女之間，沒有真正的友情。”我認(rèn)為這話也太絕對了，太虛偽。誰能說男生女生之間沒有真正的友情。的確，愛情確實常常緊跟著友情，多少男生女生正是因為友情而走向愛情的。所以交往應(yīng)該有一個度，否則不小心將會滑入使人墮落的陷阱。
講了這么多，聯(lián)系一下實際，有一點必須明確做為一個高中生來說，在學(xué)習(xí)之余，友情必不可少，但愛情則完全是一種累贅，談戀愛是絕對是玩兒火，到時候會燒傷了雙方的心靈，毀了前程。
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇7
尊敬的老師，親愛的同學(xué)們：
大家好!
今天我要演講的是我的愛情觀。
眾所周之，愛情是人類永恒的話題，愛不是簡單的喜歡，愛是永恒的感動。愛情是純潔的，愛情需要忠誠、用心、勇敢和傾聽，愛是一種責(zé)任，是一輩子的承諾。愛情的真諦我現(xiàn)在不懂，在這我只能談?wù)勎覍矍榈囊稽c認(rèn)識和理解。
戀愛是每個人必經(jīng)的一個感情過程，對于一個人的心理成長也是一個必經(jīng)歷的階段，這是每個青春期的男女感情的真實流露于宣泄。因為青春期的我們沒有一個人耐得住寂寞，異性對青春期的我們有一種無形的吸引力，他們都期待內(nèi)心的情感找到寄托。誰也不想一個人孤獨的流浪，用扯淡的幸福面對世間的殘酷。作為九零后的我，對愛情有保守的一面，從骨子里堅信緣分，認(rèn)為愛是一種責(zé)任，是一輩子的承諾。我認(rèn)為適合自己的才是最好的，感覺最重要，只要心中有愛我們天涯海角同在。
我認(rèn)為愛情首先需要忠誠，何為忠誠，是對自己所愛的人的一種必備的東西，沒有了忠誠也就不會再有愛情的存在，雙方都要將自己的愛全身心的投入到對方中，是對自己愛情觀的一種見證，對自己愛情的負(fù)責(zé)?？傊艺\是真正愛情的必備之物!
愛情還需要用心，對自己所愛的人用心，當(dāng)然同樣也不要忘記對自己用心，如果一個人都不能對自己用心，那還能對誰用心呢?所以對自己用心，善待自己，也是不可缺少的，用心是雙向的，用心去理解愛情，才會讓雙方的愛情更加牢固。用心就是愛情的橋梁通往彼此心靈的深處!
愛情需要勇敢，勇敢的面對自己的愛情，讓自己的愛情不要留下任何遺憾，勇敢的去為自己的愛情而打拼，勇敢的為自己多愛的人而努力奮斗。
愛情同樣也需要雙方的傾聽和理解。愛就是無條件、無偏見地傾聽對方的需求，并且予以協(xié)助。愛情是兩個人的事情，需要雙方不斷地付出更多的愛，只有相愛才能幸福，單方面的愛不值得去珍惜。只有在雙方付出與回饋的不斷互動中，漸漸加深;在相互寬容與體諒中得到升華。
愛情需要自信，要相信彼此，相信未來，相信時間會證明我們的選擇是真確的。如果愛，那就狠狠愛!不求愛的轟轟烈烈，只求兩個人長相廝守，細(xì)水長流，平淡中見真情。感情對我來說只是圖個安穩(wěn)。我不會輕易說愛，因為我怕受到傷害。但說出口的愛，就是一種承諾，就要用一輩子去守護(hù)!
愿天下的有情人終成眷屬!
愛情的利與弊演講稿篇8
上大學(xué)前就看過一篇小說《畢業(yè)那天我們一起失戀》，上大學(xué)后才發(fā)現(xiàn)，現(xiàn)實比小說更加殘酷！現(xiàn)在的愛情，愛得有點浮躁，有點朝三暮四，有點朝生暮死！電影《非誠勿擾》里有一句臺詞：”風(fēng)險投資，顧名思義，就是越有風(fēng)險越投資，沒有風(fēng)險絕不投資！“這符合這部電影幽默的風(fēng)格，我們只需笑笑，不必當(dāng)真！現(xiàn)實沒有這么幽默，在大學(xué)里孕育的愛情就像風(fēng)險投資，總是有風(fēng)險的，一不小心就會夭折！
真正的愛情是美好的，因為兩情相悅！為對方戴上婚戒，許一個天荒地老是一件多么浪漫的事！大學(xué)生本就處在一個十分浪漫的年齡，一個連談錢都傷感情的年齡，想不浪漫都不行！愛情里可以沒錢，粗茶淡飯也是幸福;愛情里可以有錢，只要彼此愛而不是因為錢而彼此愛就行，那么再怎么奢侈的愛情都無罪！
不可否認(rèn)的是，大學(xué)生大多還不夠成熟，會因?qū)Ψ侥硞€方面的優(yōu)點而陷入愛河，但是隨著時間的推移，不和諧的因素漸漸顯露出來并最終成為矛盾的導(dǎo)火索！一帆風(fēng)順的愛情少之又少！兩個人在一起，不可避免的會產(chǎn)生各種各樣的煩惱！可以嘗試著去改變對方的壞習(xí)慣、壞毛病，如果不成功，那么放棄這種嘗試，不然往往會起到適得其反的`效果！愛情里需要互相包容，但是不需要委曲求全！兩個人可以試著交往，不合適，可以分手，可以盡快分手——長痛不如短痛！不要為了所謂的責(zé)任耽誤了幸福！因為真正有責(zé)任心的男人會讓他的她全身而退！沒有責(zé)任心的男人還有什么好挽留的呢？愛并不一定就要在一起！兩個人的結(jié)合，并不單單是兩個人的結(jié)合，而是兩個家庭之間的聯(lián)姻！父母之命，媒妁之言，并不是全無道理！自由戀愛，并不是無限的自由！
談戀愛既然是一種風(fēng)險投資，那么生意失敗也無可厚非！但是你得保留再一次投資的資本！大學(xué)生應(yīng)該自愛，應(yīng)該矜持！婚姻不可以沒有性，但愛情可以！
但愿所有的年輕人只需進(jìn)行一次風(fēng)險投資便可獲得一生也用之不盡的幸福！
